2009/05/28

My Passion for Trade

The main reason I decided to take NLP practitioner course was simply to improve my trading performance. Nothing more, and nothing less.

Little did I know that the implication of taking the course was a lot more than my initial expectation. Back in last October when I just started the course, my main focus was to learn some skills to cope with some difficulties at the time of trading. By then did I already notice that I had some emotional issues to tackle with. For example, I really wanted to prove to the market that I was right; when I lost a trade, I felt I was a failure. Somehow I thought that to become a successful trader would make me feel more confident about myself. But the reality was telling me something totally different. Yes, if I am not confident about myself when I am trading, I will never be confident even if I become successful. Basically, I have to be already who I want myself to be before starting anything else.

It is about my own impression. If I am not happy without money, it will never bring me happiness no matter how much I believe the otherwise. It is funny, but it is so true. It is like if I cannot love, respect, and accept my husband as who he is, there is no way I will be able to do that just because I had more money than today.

The funny thing is that, the more I learnt and experienced the power of NLP, the more I started to find out my identity and the meaning behind almost everything. What has happened in my life no matter how harsh it may seem has a positive intention in every context for me. I appreciated it finally, and I ended up opening my own Pandora's box...

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