Do you want to be the "change?"
First, please remember that I am your ally, not your enemy.
Second, do you remember the Gandhi movie we watched together?
Mahatma Gandhi said,
"we must be the change we want to see in the world."
I agree, and if you do, let's do so by all means.
I understand you want to spend one night with her. It would be wonderful for her too.
But as you also know, we have one issue to finish with before anything else.
To do so will show her in a long run how responsible you are not only as a father but as a person.
We will not ask you anything impossible, and we just want to find some way out.
You tend to give me yes/no questions; but life does not always go around either/or thinking.
Let us free from this idea and merge ourselves into both/and thinking...
Hope to hear from you soon..